Secretly dating an older man

At the same time, some collegiettes love pursuing freshmen boys when they’re upperclass(wo)men: a younger guy’s carefree spirit is endearing, he probably doesn’t know your ex, and, let’s be honest, age is just a number when a gorgeous guy comes along.

There’s nothing wrong with dating someone older or younger (as long as you’re both the age of consent), but this situation has its own set of consequences to consider.

If we want to take down our profiles and commit, we’ll do it.

Which is why, when Maureen and Cassie breathlessly asked me to tell them what to do next, the answer couldn’t be more simple: NOTHING!!!

What began as a romantic adventure into unconventional love turned into a disaster I should have seen coming from waaaay over the hill. How old you actually are doesn't necessarily have a lot to do with your lifestyle. But sometimes it takes a few weeks for us to figure all of that out for ourselves. But that leaves you with the same burning question: “what should I DO, Evan? Because she enhances my life and doesn’t provide emotional drama when it’s unnecessary.” Ah, the answer couldn’t be simpler: Make your PRESENT so amazing that he WANTS to have a FUTURE with you. Since he CAN’T know after a few weeks whether you’re “the one”, just relax and enjoy the ride.Remember what it’s like when a guy’s excited about you? ”, you’re not making him feel too good in the present.He calls, he follows through, he’s thoughtful, he’s chivalrous, he’s gentlemanly, he WANTS a commitment with you. Anything you do to amp up the pressure for him to make a decision is just going to drive him away – the exact OPPOSITE reaction you want from your man. My wife was ALWAYS in the present and that’s why she’s my wife.